10/29/2010

LOOKING FORWARD TO THE DAY

I am having lunch with my daughter and Nanababies today!  I can't wait, we are going to my most unfavorite place Mc'd blah, but that is OK, we will still have fun.

We don't get the chance to do this often so I will have to come back and let you know how it went.  They are growing so fast and have such unique personalities, yes even the twins.  I am so looking forward to next year when there will be 5 beautiful little girls (and my beautiful daughter of course) but Nanababies are special, you get to visit, spoil, and send home...

I don't say it often enough but I am so proud of the woman my daughter has become.  She is such an amazing Mother, I could never handle that many children, that well.  She is a good wife and a good Mother to her step-son though he does not realize or appreciate it (teenager) someday he will look back in amazement!
Had a great time!  Got costumes
2 Pumpkins and a witch.

10/27/2010

GLOOMY DAY?

The sky is dark with rain clouds.  Some would say, and rightly so, that it is a gloomy day.  I just don't feel gloomy, there is a strong wind blowing everything around, my curtains kept blowing in my face as I was trying to finish a slipper I am making for my Nanababy, my proud pup wanted to show me how wet she was by jumping in my lap.  But still I feel joy filled.

I finished the slipper (I will never make another like that) my dog had a great time and is now napping, playing with the neighbors little puppy.  I have finally decided that if they are going to be inconsiderate enough to let the pup run around in my yard to do her business then I will just make the most of it and let her come play with my girl.

Like I said they had a great time playing in the water, oh, and the next time he let her out-he put her on a chain to do her business....

You don't have to be unpleasant, sometimes being kind works a lot better.

10/26/2010

BURNING BRIDGES

I awoke this morning with this on my heart.  I have burnt my bridges and moved on.  To often we burn our bridges and like most fire bugs keep returning to the scene of the crime.

I don't know who you are or what your need is, but this message IS for you! 
MOVE ON!

Burning Bridges is an expression synonymous to the "Point of no return", typically used when a relationship becomes irreparable.

YOUR BRIDGES
HAVE ALL
BEEN BURNT

IT'S TIME
TO MOVE
ON

DON'T STOP
TO LOOK
BACK

EMBRACE THE
NEW DAY
MOVE ON

WHO KNOWS
WHAT JOY
AWAITS

JUST
AROUND THE
NEXT BEND

YOUR BRIDGES
HAVE ALL
BEEN BURNT

IT'S TIME
TO
LIVE
ON






George Jones
"Burning Bridges"

Found some letters that you wrote me this mornin'
And they told of a love we once knew
Now they're gone, I burned them to ashes
Don't want nothin' to remind me of you.

Burning bridges behind me
It's to late to turn back now
Burning bridges behind me
All I want is to forget you somehow.

Sold the house we once planned together
I said goodbye to the friends we once knew
Then I moved to a faraway city
Trying hard to forget about you.

Burning bridges behind me
It's to late to turn back now
Burning bridges behind me

All I want is to forget you somehow.

All I want is to forget you somehow...






10/18/2010

STAINS

Stain

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

A stain is a discoloration that can be clearly distinguished from the surface, material, or medium it is found upon. Stains are caused by the chemical or physical interaction of two dissimilar materials. Stains are used intentionally in a variety of fields, including in research (biochemical staining), technology (metal staining), and art (wood staining, stained glass.)

 Formation

There can be intentional stains (such as wood stains or paint)[1], indicative stains (like food coloring or adding a substance to make bacteria visible under a microscope)[2], natural stains (such as rust on iron or a patina on bronze)[3], and accidental stains (like spilling ketchup or wine [4] on your shirt.) While the types of stains are very different in application, they all form in the same basic ways:

The primary method of stain formation is surface stains, where the staining substance is spilled out onto the surface or material and is trapped in the fibers, pores, indentations or other capillary structure of that surface.[1] The material that is trapped coats the underlying material, and the stain reflects back light according to its own color. Applying paint, spilled food, and wood stains are of this nature.[5]

A secondary method of stain involves a chemical or molecular reaction between the material and the staining material. Many types of natural stains fall into this category. Finally, there can also be molecular attraction between the material and the staining material, involving being held in a covalent bond and showing the color of the bound substance.[6]

Different types of material can be stained by different substances, and stain resistance is an important characteristic in modern textile engineering.

In many cases, stains can be affected by heat , and may become reactive enough to bond with the underlying material. Extreme heat, such as from ironing or dry cleaning, can cause a chemical reaction on an otherwise removable stain, turning it into a chemical compound that is impossible to remove.



One of my favorite poets, Merritt Malloy, once wrote "Arguments stain me".  I have always found this to be such a simple but profound truth.  People also stain us and sometimes it is a lot like the definitions given above.

You have intentional stains where someone has decided you have to believe or feel the way they do and when you refuse they try to stain you through what ever method has been used on them, for we are a product of the people and ideas that have touched our lives.  Which is why we have to be so careful of stains, aware of them and how they can slowly creep into our lives to poison us with, their truths.

Surface stains are the product of intentional stains.  When we hold onto others issues and problems, instead of turning them over to God the evidence will eventually show in our lives, on our faces and in our actions.  Though it often involves letting go of people you love, sometimes it is a choice we have to make so we do not carry their stains and become like them.

Chemical or reactive stains occur when through the heat of our anger and hurt we hold onto others words or deeds.  We seal these stains into our hearts allowing them a place they have no right to and we should cast them out before we are permanently scarred by these stains.